Agreeing on honeymoon locations is a smart idea.

Nuptius caveat: marriage is dangerous. or, to be more precise, watch out for your honeymoon location. Just as the sunrise signifies the day, so too does the honeymoon reflect the degree of connection you will have with your spouse "for the rest of your (marital) life." Here's a story to heed carefully. Days after returning from their honeymoon, a Madhya Pradesh woman filed for divorce in a Bhopal family court earlier this month. Why? It seems that the couple had already decided to spend their postnuptial days in Goa.It's not good enough to surprise your partner.

It would be disastrous to reveal to your partner where you are going on your honeymoon. One-person decision-making in a partnership should not exist, just as the one-handed clap. Unfortunately, it did appear here. According to reports, the new wife went through the motions, came back from Ayodhya's non-beaches and non-daiquiris with her new husband, and has since tried to become his ex-wife. Sitting quietly on the side, we elders say: "Better after honeymoon than n."